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What do you say to an attractive Queer in the wild?
Where do I meet like-minded Queer people like me?
How do I know when someone is flirting with me?
I hate dating apps, how can I show up as myself on those?
I'm femme, how can I let people know I am Queer?
These are all common attraction issues in the Queer Community. If you have ever asked yourself any of the questions above, The Art of Queer Attraction IS FOR YOU!

Attraction is the action or power of evoking interest.  Many people mislabel attraction as purely romantic. But many feelings qualify as attraction, from taking an interest in someone to admiring someone's appearance to experiencing sexual feelings. You are here to learn it all!

The Art of Queer Attraction

1:1 Date Coaching Program Overview
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1. What Makes You Irresistible?

Discover, create and embrace why Queer folks are attracted to you.

2. Confidence In Your Style

Get feedback and do some "spring cleaning" on your environment, environment and vibe.

3. Have Chemistry Online and Off

Take the reigns on your dating plan and enjoy exhilirating second and third dates. 

What Makes You Irresistible?

What You Will Learn:

  • IRRESISTIBLE MINDSET: powerful mindset framework that applies not only to being virtually irresistible in all aspects of life 

  • UNIQUELY YOU: Discover and embrace your “quirks” that make you specifically attractive 

  • MAGNETIC CONFIDENCE: Learn how to become strong within yourself, knowing and honoring who you are using mantra and personas that are easy to visualize and remember when you need it.

  • ATTRACTION AMPLIFIERS: Pairing your existing qualities with attraction amplifiers.

Confidence In Your Style

What You Will Learn:

  • HOME: Spiff up your home environment so that it’s ready to welcome your ideal woman into your life

  • STYLE: You shouldn't fit your clothes, your clothes should fit you. Learn your authentic personal style that gives you the confidence feel good in your body

  • HEAD and HEART: Clear out, throw away and rid your mind, body and soul of anything from the past that would make you less than fully ready to meet someone new

Chemistry Online and Off

What You Will Learn:

  • PHOTOS: Maximize your success in online dating by choosing the best photos that accurately reflect who you are and what you're looking for.

  • PLATFORM: Use the right platforms and structure your profiles in a way that resonates with your unique vibe. 

  • MESSAGE: You'll also learn how to send messages that get responses and keep conversations going.

  • WINGMAN: Kita will be your support when approaching potential romantic partners in your natural environment.

What's Included in The Art of Queer Attraction?

Weekly Coaching Sessions
- Zoom

- In-person events

Email and Text Support

Potential matches from Matchmaking database

This is an action oriented date coaching service. I will be with you every step of the way. Your coach will tell you exactly what is working well and what to improve on, i.e. flirting, confidence, style, etc. You will have coaching materials, “going out”/events schedules and an effective dating plan.


Who is this program for?

This course is for single Queer women and Non-binary/Trans people who are looking to find a serious long-term relationship, but you struggle with: 

  • Know what you want, but not sure how to be noticeable

  • Moving conversations forward after 3 days

  • Not sure how to flirt without being "creepy"

  • Wants a PERSONALIZED dating plan 

Will I be in a relationship by the end?

I wouldn’t make that guarantee and I wouldn’t trust anyone who does. Much of your success depends on how open you’re willing to be, how much work you’re willing to put in and your ability to be coachable and adjust when feedback is given. We must also factor in the person(s) you’re going to date! You can do everything right but it still takes time to find the right person.

Why is your service different? 

Did you know that 96% of coaching courses fail! That's because they are all insight, but people who take those courses or program never take action or fail to stick with it. I wanted a program that did more than give you information. I want to be there through your dating process: when you meet someone, when you want to take it to the next level, when you have trouble flirting or approaching someone at an event, etc. This service is specifically  to transform the way you approach love.  

What are your fees?

This is a 12 weeks service for $2700. Payment plans are available. 

Additional Questions???

If you have other questions, please feel free to email me at: Please title the email "Art of Attraction" and I will respond within 24 hours. 

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