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"At the age of 68, I truly thought it would not be possible to find love, and I was actually OK with that. Thank you Coach Kita for encouraging me and gently pushing me from behind to continue on the path.
My partner and I will be forever grateful!"

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"Working with Coach Kita has been an honor and a pleasure. She always made it clear that I was not in this alone, and I never felt like I was. Under her guidance, I completely changed the way that I think, act and respond to myself and others. Together, we dug deep, to uncover and understand where my old beliefs came from. I trusted her enough to try new things and the results were absolutely amazing. Whenever I resisted, I did not grow. When I decided to let go and trust this process everything began to fall into place."


“I came into this experience just looking to get out of my post-Covid rut, get back into the swing of dating, but certainly not looking for “the one”. As a matter of fact I was 100% sure that a long term relationship wasn’t in the cards for me in such a short period of time —I was too rusty at the dating game. And I’ve never been so glad to be so wrong! I’ve met someone amazing, who checks all of my boxes and then some. Someone who I certainly would not have met without Kita. Listen, there are no guarantees in life but Kita taught me that if you’re clear about what you want and you go into each new experience with an open mind and curiosity, life has a way of surprising you. I’d recommend Kita’s service to anyone looking to be surprised and willing to put in the work to get there. 

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Alexa Young, CA


The Matchmaking and Coaching aspect is what made me work with Kita. Matchmaking without the coaching I think could have pitfalls that prevent the success of a match. The "before and after" chats and counsel are quite valuable to me. I have enjoyed every part of this process. Kita is cheerful, encouraging, and it is so nice to have the opportunity to download and check in with a non-biased party about what is real/ perceived and what I should consider dropping or worth hanging in there for.


Kita is phenomenal, genuine and thoughtful. I can't imagine that I would have been able to be as open with anyone else. I decided to work with Kita because she is a Black and queer individual with lived experience. There was no better fit in my mind. They actually care about the work they're doing and the people she is working with. This is such a vulnerable process, and it takes a gentle and authentic soul to connect with others on how to navigate it. Kita makes this such an enriching experience on a personal level.

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Let me tell you how Kita helped me dramatically transform my life into a peaceful happy place!!! I’m an over 50 lesbian who had been stuck in the closet for at least 40 years. Trust me when I tell you that closet was stuffed full of a ton of childhood abandonment and abuse.

About 3 years ago, after my last failed relationship with a guy, I hung up my cleats. I quit. I couldn’t do it anymore; I couldn’t continue living the lie. I was so unhappy not being able to find the kind of love that I wanted and needed, so I stopped looking and just gave up.


I started seeing a therapist hoping that maybe if I worked through my childhood trauma, I could figure out why I wasn’t finding the love that I dreamed of. Every week seemed the same. We talked about the horror of my childhood and the effect it continued to have on me over the years, but inevitably when that hour was up, I walked out in tears – left to collect myself alone in my car, and shove all those memories and emotions back down where they came from. After 2 years of going nowhere I quit seeing my therapist and resigned myself to live out the rest of my life as a single woman.

Fast forward to the middle of June when I stumbled on Kita’s bio on TikTok. When I saw she was a LGBTQ+ Date Coach my heart skipped a beat....maybe – just maybe - she can help me I thought. Two weeks later we met over Zoom for my first consultation. Immediately I knew: not only did I ​really​ need a coach, but that I ​really needed​ ​Kita​ to be my Dating Coach. She fell into my universe at exactly the right time and place.

Throughout the month of July, her intuitive coaching skills helped me Burn the Blueprint of the trauma that led me into the closet. I was finally unleashed of that nightmare and there’s no way I could have done it without Kita. She’s taught me the steps to self-acceptance and self-love. She has done in one month what years of therapy couldn’t do.

During the dating process, Kita was there with me every step of the way. The app to use, how to swipe differently, but more importantly we processed the dates I went on, what happened and if that person was truly in line with my requirements. A few short months later, I had met THE ONE! She was everything I looked for and just when I thought Kita couldn't be more amazing, she met with us both to ensure that we would get the relationship off on the right foot.

Kita has a humble spirit, an honest soul and a loving heart. She’s exactly who I needed to be by my side to get to this beautiful place in my life where I can live free and outside my comfort zone. Never did I think I would come out of the closet – not even to myself – let alone anyone else. Yet here I am – living out loud and proud!! And thanks to Kita’s guidance – Now here I am, out of the closet and married to the love of my life! 


Thank You Kita!!

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R. Ortego

"Matchmaking has been interesting. Kita has done a great job with matching me with wonderful people. At one point, I was still recovering from a breakup and had stretches where I felt good about myself, but also low moments where I didn't. I've appreciated Kita's check-ins, support and adaptability. 
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